I am scared but I am going to be OK. |
Since high school, I have been one of those students who could be labeled as “striver.” I wanted to advance myself and do better for myself and my family. Pushing myself academically and participating in extra circular activities, so I would get noticed by a college. It happened with a twist. I was offered a scholarship to a university and then it fell through. I went to a community college for the first two years of my college career. In hindsight, it was a perfect move as I was able to deal with the pressures of college with the support of my family. When I transferred to a four-year university, I learned the discipline it takes to succeed academically. It was not easy, but the early lesson was that success required sacrifice and discipline.
Sadly, those two qualities are not helpful when jobs were scarce as was the case in the recession of 1990. Keeping the lights on and the rent paid required the swallowing of personal pride. It meant working retail working for commission. It was dealing cards at a casino. I discovered I was good at computers and learning how to program them. I was lucky when I left the casino industry, it was the giddy and stupid times of the dot-com boom. I transitioned from dead-end jobs to a career. It only took seven years out of school to make this basic professional milestone.
In the intervening period, I have been fired and laid off more times than I can mention. I struggled to keep the lights on and the mortgage paid. People have treated me in a grossly unfair fashion and I have received numerous second chances throughout my career. The adversity which has dominated my career makes me contemptuous of others who have not had similar experiences. It is also why I roll my eyes when I hear certain public figures discuss their “life of struggle.”
The ups and downs of my career took a heavy toll on my marriage and family life. It has changed me more than I would like to admit. In spite of it all, I have remained committed to the business of building working software and attempting to make work more satisfying, sustainable, and sane. I am committed to large businesses treating people with basic decency.
I am going to give that vision a hard test. The experience is going to challenge me in ways I am not comfortable. I might fail. I still have to try because I owe it to the people grinding out code. I owe it to my family and I owe it to myself. My dreams are very big and they scare me witless. I look forward to defeating the fear and sharing those dreams with you.
Until next time.
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